IP Database -> Connect -> Running Software.
It's easy enough
Well since the OWNED servers do not start at the top of the list except your own it is more like
IP database -> OWNED -> Connect -> Running Software.
I know I am the only one with a 2nd server thus far (and trust me I would not have bought it had you not nerfed the NPC Servers /grin) and it is something that is a low priority but still just keep it in mind to do when the rest of the work load is low for you.